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Is Texting A Skill Killer Or A Learning Tool?

Is Texting Ruining Our Writing Skills? Let’s Talk About It.

As an English teacher, I hear this a lot: “Is texting ruining students’ writing?”

Honestly? No, it’s not. But we do need to talk about the difference between texting and formal writing.

Texting is casual. It’s meant to be quick, and it’s often a little messy. You might text a friend,

“omg I’m sooo tired lol can’t even think rn 🥱”

and that’s totally fine.

That kind of writing fits the moment. It’s relaxed, it’s personal, and it’s fun.

No one cares about punctuation, sentence structure, or spelling.

But that same message doesn’t belong in a business message.

Imagine sending this text if you had to reschedule a business appointment:

not feeling it rn lol too tired, maybe 2moro?”

Yikes. That’s where things get tricky.

Here’s the good news:

We are all smart enough to code-switch. The trick is to think carefully before you hit ‘send.’ We do it all the time in real life. We speak differently to our best friend than we would to a client or an acquaintance.

Instead of blaming texting for bad writing, let’s consider it a learning opportunity.

Remember that texting is one writing style, and academic or professional writing is another.

Texting is not the enemy.

It’s just a different tool.

I noticed, recently, that in my classes, my chat box was filling up with terribly-written messages. I have started playing a daily game called, “Write or Text” where the students will send me a message in the chat box based on whichever style I have requested. They have all, from middle schoolers to adults, caught on beautifully.

Let’s simply be mindful about when to be casual and when to be professional. We can do it.

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5 Common Storytelling Mistakes – And How To Fix Them

Storytelling mistakes beginners make

Are you new to telling stories?

Are you making a lot of storytelling mistakes?

Whether you’re writing your personal story or telling it aloud, you want your audience to listen – and stay interested.

But beginners often make a few simple storytelling mistakes that can stall the story or lose the audience entirely.

Here are five of the most common storytelling mistakes – and how to fix them.

1. Cut the Backstory: Start Strong and Stay Focused

Too much background can overwhelm or bore your audience before your story even begins.

If your story involves your mother’s next-door-neighbor’s stepson’s kid’s second-grade teacher… just say “a friend.”

🔧 Fix it: Keep only the details that are essential. Trim the fat so your audience isn’t distracted from your actual story.

2. Add Dialogue to Make Your Story Come Alive

I once heard a lovely story from a woman who grew up in a large family in the middle of nowhere.

Laundry day was a big deal, and she described it in entertaining detail.

However, the story lacked dialogue, and so it felt distant.

🔧 Fix it: Dialogue adds voice, emotion, and realism. Even a few lines can help your audience feel like they’re in the story.

3. Use Conflict and Resolution to Drive the Story

Without conflict, your story is just a list of events.

If you’re telling a road trip story, a simple rundown of stops and meals isn’t compelling.

But if the car broke down in a sketchy neighborhood on a 105-degree day?

Now we’re listening.

🔧 Fix it: Show the problem. And then show how you dealt with it. That’s what gives your story shape, tension, and impact.

4. Pause for Impact: Let Your Story Breathe

Whether you’re speaking or writing, don’t rush.

A pause gives your audience time to react, reflect, or laugh.

It builds suspense, adds emotion, and emphasizes key moments.

🔧 Fix it: Use pauses before and after big moments. In writing, that can be a line break or short sentence. When speaking, just… pause.

5. End with a Bang: Create a Memorable Finish

A good story needs a strong finish.

Don’t just trail off.

Your ending should leave your audience with a laugh, a thought, or a feeling that lingers.

🔧 Fix it: Call back to your opening line, resolve the main tension, or deliver a final insight. Make the ending count.

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